HI Wendy, and welcome. I just wanted to insert a small point to remember. The alcoholic mate has to make the decision for himself (or herself, as the case may be.) If your gentleman realizes he has a very real problem, then there is hope. If he is just doing this to please you or relieve some of the pressures exerted on him, the success percentages begin to drop drastically. The most important thing you can do is talk. Express your concerns and fears. When love is in the equation, it can be a powerful awakening tool, to which one then can more readily see what actions need to be accomplished on both sides. I will remember you in my meditations tonight.
Peace—
Padraic