Originally Posted by
Chino 
Do you need his permission to call? You have National Health Service and Social Service, have you called them?
I have to say that I completely agree with Chino....if it is YOUR house, YOUR rules are the ones HE has to follow, your boundaries for yourself are more important. If there were somebody lying on my couch all day bleeding, I would call the ambulance and to h*** with what he thinks.
I know you love him, but you need to think about and love yourself now. He is killing himself whether you try to take care of him or not. I really don't mean to come across as cruel, but you are allowing this to happen and only you can change it.
Lots of Hugs and support coming your way. Please, please take care of yourself.
HG