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Old 01-07-2009, 11:38 AM
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freeflower
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She's 24. My other girl is 28 and they are about 2 of the best daughters a mother and father could ask for.
TC, I guess I am the one who always did the talking in our home. Especially about his drinking over all our years together. I'm quite sure he never really listened. It tore my heart out to even bring up the subject of his drinking because I didn't want to hurt him. Then, when he really never responded, I started to get angry. Being put second started to not sit well with me. The lack of intimacy and communication really has left me with no love for him. I am the worlds biggest procratinator. Maybe my control issues are what stops me from filing. I'm almost sure he'll recover once we get a divorce and that in it's self will blow my codependent mind. I think deep down I am just so angry that I want him to hurt like I have. How very mature of me right?
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