Originally Posted by
openheart 
..........he's been MIA since Friday at 6pm.
- but I want their father there for them...ahhhhhhh...what to do, what to do...my mind is racing but I'm not getting anywhere!
So when you take these two simple sentences out and put them together.......it doesn't sound like he's "here for them" now. Inconsistent physical presence doesn't make a father. Just my honest opinion, and I have no kids so I can't say I know 100% the decision you are facing, but sometimes it's interesting to see your own words re-arranged a little, huh?
Good for you looking for meetings. Either Naranon or Alanon will be so helpful for you........they certainly have been for me and many others on this site. I am so sorry that you are going through this again. Addiction is a patient mistress, I hear. Keep posting here.......there is alot of good experience and wisdom to be found.