Originally Posted by
howareyounow 
It's out of my hands. My husband will now HATE me.
I'm so so so sad.
You did the right thing. Your husband's mother is going to try to get him the help that he needs. You need to worry about getting the things that you need to take care of yourself and your children.
Your husband might hate you. So? You shouldn't be worrying about how he feels. You should worry about how you feel.