I agree with DII, my XAH quit drinking but is nowhere near sober. He is a mean "dry drunk" now and there are times i wished he would drink again since he was a much nicer person when he was drinking. I couldnt stand him drinking and i couldnt tolerate him when he is not. He went to very few AA meetings and has basically gone "cold turkey". It has been an ugly ugly year and i wouldnt wish it on anyone.