Hi there proveit11 -- I'm glad that your mind is a little more at ease in that you heard from your husband -- I'm sorry that you had to go through this -- I go through it at least monthly and have for 20 years now -- don't let that happen to you. It is harder to leave now than it would have been 20 years ago -- shouldn't have got married. It is maddening and crazy making and I am just now starting to realize that I have wasted all that time hoping he would get better. Very hard to leave now -- you (and I) don't deserve it.
my thoughts are with you!
timetogo