FL wife, without knowing all the details, it does sound as if he's being unreasonable. It is possible, as TSH mentioned, that you aren't aware of how you really behave when drinking - but I don't see how the small amount you mention drinking could cause a drastic change in personality. I know I went from being sweet, kind and fun to be around to argumentative and hostile in the blink of an eye, but I consumed huge amounts before getting to that stage. Does he have family or friends who are alcoholics & maybe is overreacting out of fear? Glad you found us, FLwife.