Thank you all! Its funny because everyone I have spoken to recently has said I sound relieved. That really tells me I made the right move. Now I just need to take care of getting a better living situation for myself and kids. I have a 1 year old and 4 year old and the three of us are at my mothers and its not going very smoothly. haha. My mother is definitley not ready to have kids back in her house.
My husband called and offered to move out of our house, but if I stay there I am worried about him drinking all night and coming back to the house in the middle of the night. he aslo has two other children that I know he would rather I was taking care of for him. I just don't think I should stay at our house...its opening up the door for him to think we will get back together.
what do you all think?