Just because the drug usage stops doesnt mean the underlying behavior does. I think selfishness and entitlement are the biggest issues that many of us deal with. Even when my son is clean he has a hard time looking past his own wants and desires to anything else. They think that the whole world owes them something - sometimes it seems worse when they arent using - as if not using should excuse them from any other responsibility in this life. Is she working a program on top of the methadone?