Strongbird,
I didn't tell anyone for months. I couldn't talk about it. I didn't want to give up the energy, I needed all I could get. Once I got stronger I found that I could talk about it and tell anyone. I think you'll be fine if you go with your gut feeling, it's usually right! If the offer to drink ever comes up just say "no thanks". The first time I did that I was amazed at how that was the end of it. Just say no! Make up an excuse if you don't want to open the can of worms. Good luck and Happy Holidays! Prayers