Brandeeno, I agree with the replies you have been given its worth trying lots of different meetings to see what you think about AA before you decide its not for you.
However although face to face meetings seem to help most people, it is not the only way, I only go to AA every now and again and thats to see the people I have made friends with there.
I am also aware of many others who are remaining sober whilst not going to AA or practising the program.
Finding out what works for you is the most important thing, it might be AA, or a closeknit support system around you, posting and talking online or therapy, religeon or just doing it yourself(very hard).
Dont give up on anything without giving it a real go but be aware there are always other options.
Look after yourself.