My sponsor likes to tell me that there are meetings that focus on the solution, and group therapy meetings. Personally, I prefer the solution type meetings. I find that at Step meetings and Big Book meetings. I have a few friends and SR of course, to bitch about what's wrong in my life lol.
I'm currently without transportation, so I can walk to a few meetings that are here downtown . I'm not crazy about them, but as my sponsor suggested to me isn't it about time that I attend those meetings and share my ESH which is solution based? She has a point. There might be someone else there who has no car and needs to hear about the solution.
Like everyone has said, find another meeting. It wasn't until I found that Big Book meeting that I found my sponsor and started working the steps and my life has changed for the better.
Karen