AA would be really neat if it weren't for all those ........ people! lol. Sorry ... bad joke.
Let's look at this from another angle ... what step are you on B?
The three most important words in the big book, can be found at the top of page 112.
It took me a lot of years in AA to figure that out. Once I did and once I began applying it in ALL my daily affairs, it really made it easy to decide what meetings I would attend and which ones I wouldn't.
As sugErspun said ... keep seeking - your answers will come.