Originally Posted by
Brandeeno 
I don't at all mean to sound shallow and maybe it's the area I live but most of the people at the meetings I attend like to discuss their current situation which is often times dire and hopeless.
Maybe try to do something about it?
Steer it back to the solution.. Give it hope.. You might be amazed if you can help turn it around how attractive it can become.
Ive seen it happen ..
Andy