Originally Posted by
ToughChoices 
When I had this realization, my instinct was to just blurt it out right then. Have some big emotional scene.
But I held back. I'd like some input on this situation before I make any announcements.
Any thoughts?
I like the way you stopped your "old" behavior by not blurting it out, leading to a big emotional scene. You held back. I think that's good.
I think maybe that's the three A's working for you. You had your Acknowledgement, now is time for your Acceptance, then perhaps your Action?
I dunno, you are light years ahead of me,
just wanted to comment on the holding back thing. Good luck.
Thanks and God bless us all, :praying
Coyote