Originally Posted by
ANGELINA243 
I assume you are referring to a bar or someplace where he drinks. That needs to stop. He can find his own way there and back--by you or someone else picking him up you are enabling his behavior by being a part of it. He can call a cab to take him to/from the bar.
Well let me ask you this because he always throws this up in my face when I tell him this. He says
"I'm being responsible, I'm making sure that I have a designate driver to come pick me up. I'm utilizing my family - there is nothing wrong with that."
So how to I get him to understand that what he is doing is making us responsible for his actions. He refuses to even discuss it because he says I'm wrong.