Originally Posted by
Freedom1990 
I don't see where you are trying to control her at all. I commend you for knowing when you are not feeling spiritually fit enough to be in the same room as her when she is drinking.
Thanx Freedom - Most of the time I don't think it's a control thing. But Sunday night it was, partly. I was really looking forward to having her home and I was resentful when she poured herself one. I felt marginalized - yea, I was trying to control - but that plan failed.
I got lots of work to do on this issue. Sorry to be dominating this thread.
Mark