Originally Posted by
Cubile75 
Light bulb moment number two... Could it be that I am trying to control her??
I don't see where you are trying to control her at all. I commend you for knowing when you are not feeling spiritually fit enough to be in the same room as her when she is drinking.
At 12 weeks I would have been a goner had someone else in the house been drinking, and that's the God's honest truth.
If she gets upset about you leaving the room, that's on her, not you. You continue to do what you need to do for your own recovery. :ghug