(((Rozie)))
Where does it say, anywhere there, that YOU have to do anything?
Sweetie, the way I see it there are a bunch of sick people trying to decide what is best here, and none of the answers really fit.
Why do anything? Why not just sit back and let life happen, because it will no matter what you do.
Instead of worrying about anyone else today, why not just do something nice for Rozie? You deserve a day to focus on you and it's right here right now if you want it.
We don't have to try to make dysfuntional people functional. We can sit back and let them learn their own lessons, just like we did.
Enjoy your day, do something nice for yourself, and let the rest of the world live in their own chaos.
Hugs