Thanks everyone,
Cass, I don't understand what you meant about beng angry with my mom forever, and that she wasn't wrong???? My son asking me to sell the car and hire a lawyer yet again had nothing to do with my mom. Up until the last yr or so I was upset with my parents for continuing to enable him, cuz he was a drug addict and any help they gave him was always wasted.
Bonnie & Marle, I wish you both the same with your children. Peace, harmony, and love but no enabling!!! The holidays each & everyone of them have been hard for many yrs now. I haven't seen or talked to my 2 grandsons in about 4 yrs & haven't been abel to spend holidays with my son 7 out of 8 yrs cuz he has been in jail.