Originally Posted by
anvilhead 
if this keeps up, what are YOUR options? sounds like you've been on this merry go round before, and nothing has really changed. your whole world is hinged on HIM, is he using, is he detoxing, is he telling the truth, is he lying, is he sick, is he gonna get better, is he gonna get help???? it's what HE'S DOING RIGHT NOW that matters, cuz this is what ya got to deal with. his using is making YOU sick. usually that's reserved the person TAKING the drugs.
what are you willing to do for YOU to get better? regardless of what he does????
Well, I'm getting my nerve up to kick him out. I'm scared to death. Scared, sad, stressed -- you name it -- but we have a 3-year old, and I can see how all of this is affecting her, and that's the last straw.