An honest answer....................................
"Well gee, if you feel that bad, I know detoxing can be dangerous, better get yourself to the ER."
Repeat above phrase over and over as needed.
That will get through to him, eventually.
And actually detoxing can be very dangerous.....................in truth I died and they were putting the TOD on my chart.
I NEVER suggest that an addict and/or alcoholic detox at home, it is just NOT SAFE.
J M H O
Love and hugs,