welcome lilchef...thanks for the thread...i too worked in a rest/bar for years, i was the night bartender/waitress...started out fine but as time went on and my drinking got worse and i got more out of control had to leave for a day job..hubby didn't like me getting home at 4am...go figure...anyway...went on to a day job and continued to drink...just adjusted my drinking schedule a bit...it's kinda like when people say moving will make them stop drinking...changing jobs didn't do it...my will to save my life and a wonderful support system did it!!
so i know i'm not of much help in your dilemma with the job but do what you have to do to save yourself...the alternative is not an alternative!!!
Glad you are here and keep coming back!! Great people here!!
Lisa
