Originally Posted by
prairiegirl 
I can relate to always being considered the problem. It doesn't feel good after awhile. Thanks to all of you for helping me understand! I am very grateful to all of your responses. I feel stronger now.
What that did to me, was make me question my sanity. I second guessed every move I made, every decision, every thought. I finally had to leave, and this was the reason it was poorly planned, I just couldn't think well. And I was terrified that if I didn't just pack up and do it, I would second guess myself into not doing it at all.
We aren't the problem. We have our own problems, yes. But we aren't the cause of theirs.