Yes, I've thought about becoming more socialable at the meetings. I have an introverted personality which makes it harder for me to meet new people (probably the reason why I haven't been able to make any new friends since I've moved here). I could make up a few excuses which prevents me from making new friends in the meetings and I can be pretty good at it too. So far, I've only been going to the speaker meetings and usually just take off right after the meeting. I do get there early sometimes and chit chat with a few people.