Letting go of a teenaged using son after some time in recovery was very hard. But my sponsor kept asking me if I wanted to be part of the problem (take him back yet again - enable, enable, fix, fix ....) or part of the solution. That he had choices - and he made his. That my job was to go to my meetings and work a program and make some changes and take some get tough pills - so I didn't crumple when he did call. And he did, and I did.
Love in recovery,
Jody Hepler
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