Oh My Dear Cathy, He is young and I know how hard it is. You want so much to help him. Help him by being strong. You know drug use will only hurt him and bring him down. Do whatever you can to get him to want help. If that means being hard on him you have to do it. I have seen since coming here that kids that get off drugs & get clean, have parents who were the toughest.
Sending you love, strength, and many mom hugs,
Diane