locks changed
Well I had thd locks changed, he still is acting like its no big deal...but Im just gonna once again methodically attempt to not communicate, barr him and break things off for good...yes I guess I hold on cuz im gettin older (46), cuz there are few qualified men in my area, because it seems so many people have baggage that leads to violent, bizarre occurrences in relationships these days....so I guess maybe Im better off alone for now, at least to continue focus on me and the kids wellbeing....tired of his long periods of sobriety ...and then out of left field comes this....yes its happened before....and I think I'm convinced now it will happen again and again and again as long as I tolerate...as long as his mom and sister who he lives with enable him, as long as he refuses to get any kind of help.