Sorry I should have posted this before
Do not ever lower yourself to his standards. Yes he will try to get at you and using your baby is one way to do this.
Just keep yourself to yourself, be polite and civil to him, while always in the back of your mind think you are an ar$^e.
Don't lower yourself to slagging him off, at least to his child. With your friends do it to high hell.
However, one thing I have had to stipulate is you -can take the baby at the agreed times. BUT if you turn up drunk or hungover, the baby stays home. I will not allow the most important being in my life riding in a car when you are drunk and I do not care if she is 2 years or 32 years old.
Be strong
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