It's been a year and a half for me and I still get the insanity coming into my mind sometimes and so I go to the gym as often as I can. I've repainted a lot of things in my house and am getting it ready to sell so that fills a lot of my time. I volunteer a lot. I listen to the first graders read in my youngest daughters classroom and I am a CASA (
National CASA). Court Appointed Special Advocate. It really helps my mind. I've become the board game queen, playing often with my kids who are just glowing with the attention.