Originally Posted by
likenoother 
I peeked in the windows and didn't see any bottles....that's what I was concerned I would see.
What action do you believe you could have taken if you HAD seen bottles? My exAH would "check out" and have no contact with me after he'd had a night of hard drinking and was sleeping off a hangover.
Unfortunately, your concern about his drinking is not going to have any affect on his drinking. His addiction. He owns it. His choices.