New To This...I Need Advice
I am a 35-year-old woman who has never been around an alcoholic. To make a long story short, I fell in love with a wonderful, caring, incredible gentleman who is in recovery. He did not share this with me until I had accused him of cheating on me after he disappeared for a few days.
That was 6 months ago.
The other night he had a glass of wine with me. He said that it was ok for him to do this every now and then....
I think he's started up again and it's my fault. But that isn't what I'm worried about at this moment. I'm worried about him. I love him very much and can't imagine life without him.
He has disappeared again and I'm in fear that he has started drinking again. He called in sick at work and I'm scared he is putting his job in jeopardy.
I want to go check on him at his house, but I'm scared that isn't the right thing to do.
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
likenoother