Originally Posted by
wenchris 
I will tell you, we will fight to the ends of the earth to keep the boys in our custody. Grandpa and I are prepared to spend the rest of our lives helping the kid's financially take care of these boys. But we cannot take on more......It is totally impossible.
I hope the new baby will be allowed to be adopted at birth and that I never know any more than that.
Not wanting to take on more responsibility sounds very sane to me and I hope along with you that the baby will find a wonderful home.
When I found out that I needed surgery that would make it impossible for me to have kids, my mom said to me: "Who knows, perhaps the poor little thing you will adopt some day is born right this minute." This baby might just be the miracle someone like me has been waiting for.
And your family sounds really amazing!