Oh darlin, I know just how you feel. I am raising two children 3 and 5 from my AD and her ADBF. And now she is in jail and pregnant with twins. She will probably have them while in custody. Not sure if they will let her out when she has them or take her back to jail. But I cannot do any more than I am doing. Like you I feel sickened by the thoughts of it all. I pray all the time to put it in God's hands. Doesn't help my stomach much!!!!! I just feel the whole world is falling apart and I cannot do anything to stop it. I am trying to protect these two little ones, but simply can't fix everything or everyone. AT least you have other family members to step up. That is a wonderful thing. Prayers for you and all of your family. I understand. April