Amy, you made me smile. Last night I was thinking about the assistance I've given my daughter and any family or friends who have needed it. I used to do in home volunteer work with senior citizens, and always found great satisfaction in helping them accomplish things they couldn't manage themselves.
Right now, staying focused on myself, I'm asking what I have learned from this entire episode? The answer is know my abilities and limitations, respect my own boundaries. My daughter and I shared a precious smile last night when I told her "you know I'd do that for you if I could" when withdrawals kicked in. I held her hand instead and did what I could -- pray for both of us.
I'll help anybody if I can and I've finally learned to help myself, too
