Originally Posted by
Jadmack25 
Well, it's 19 years later, and he hasn't heard an answer yet it seems.
I have heard at least 50, "I have to quit this crap, it is killing me", and " am sick of feeling like s**t, having no money and making a fool of myself", etc at various times over 18 years.
Nope, apparently the lure of sobriety hasn't screamed at him loudly enough or long enough yet. His hearing must be of the selective variety.
I'm interested in why you have listened to the same old crap for this many years. Since you posted, and he did not, if you feel like sharing your story I would like to know what's made you stick by him all these years.