Welcome! My addict is my 37 year old daughter, the mother of three beautiful girls. I also go through the out of sight, out of mind, but for me I have a very hard time handling her in my life at all. My problem is the more she is out of sight I tend to forget all she has done to devastate our days (stealing, lying, chaos, drama), get missing her (or guilty for not making contact), make contact and it all starts again.
This is the place to be.