Originally Posted by
linn4234 
I just don't what to do anymore. He is killing himself slowly in front of me. Says he wants to quit, but never seems to succeed. What can I do so I don't lose him forever?
Welcome back, linn.
I've sat in the living room with bottles, too, crying and trying to decide what to do with them.
I'm so sorry that you're in that position.
Breathe deep.
Pouring out the booze, getting angry, and confronting him will do nothing to change the situation. It may make you feel a bit better tonight - it won't keep you from losing him forever. Unfortunately, neither will putting them back and keeping quiet.
I know this sounds harsh.
There is nothing you can do to keep from losing him.
But you can start to find yourself.
Take care.
-TC