My partner doesn't talk about our issues is the problem- she keeps it all in and then explodes which she did today- and she has good points, YES, but she also needs to learn to not hold in her feelings so I can at least be given the chance to work on things- she's 7 yrs younger then me, so I think that may have something to do with it- oh geesh.
Thanks RainbowGirl- now I get to be alone for a week and think about all of this- I hope I am just sad tonight and then can get into a healthy groove while alone. thanks so much for your note.