Hi Friends,
So I am on Day 22 and have a question for you all:
My partner of 5 years still drinks, she was basically my partner in crime, but I was much worse, sneaky and the instigator most often. She's not an addict I don't think, but does enjoy drinking.
She didn't drink for my first 19 days, but then her old friend came into town this weekend to visit and had 2 beers on Sat night- which was fine and didn't bother me (I was with them but of course did not drink!).
Then they hung out again last night- without me (my choice) and shared a bottle of wine at dinner and now I found out they had beers before dinner too- I am guessing around 3 each but not sure. This bothered me. It seemed like a lot of booze and then she came home smelling like it- ugh. such a turn off.
I think i am too new to deal with this, - am I wrong to be upset? Now we are arguing and taking to the next level and not talking- ugh, yuck, sad.
Confused...
thanks for listening.