One of these days, I'll cross that bridge for good, and when I do, there is no turning back.
Amen sista. And it WILL happen. I can remember all the little "weird/quirky" things that my xabf did that eventually drove me crazy. It was almost like he was a child in a 40 year olds body. Very high maintenance to say the least. I eventually just got SO tired of dealing with the bullsh*t and the drama that he brought to my life daily that I knew I had to do something. I could NOT live the rest of my years dreading going home to MY OWN house. Nope.
Hang in there. You'll know when you can't take it anymore. Oh and it does NO good to tell them that you are getting to the point of possibly ending the relationship - I tried that - apparently he didn't believe me. I guess he believes me now.
Hugs to you.