Marle,
I'm sorry your AD is back out there and sorry you are having to go through this again.
Like the other moms have said, I always knew in my gut. Denial was the name of the game early on, but as time went on, that mama's gut didn't lie.
I'm proud of the way you are handling this. Sounds like boundaries are in place in order for you to maintain some peace and serenity. Good for you.
In the meantime, I'm keeping both you and AD in my prayers, praying that she will just get sick 'n tired of the disease controlling her, and praying you feel the love and support of your recovery friends here as well as the peace that working a program can give.
Hugs,
Hangin' In