Originally Posted by
Mair 
In my experience, when my xab texted or called me there was always an alternative motive. Be careful they are great manipulators.
gill
I have to agree with my experience as well-mine always was up to something when he called or did the txt! I finally decided that if he was an X he was going to stay that way and I changed my phone number! After 6 years of having the same phone number!
When you have had enough you will know-IMHO there is no such thing as a normal conversation with one who is in active addiction. If they are in a program of their choice then I could see the conversations becoming "normal" at some point until then in my book it is all just quacking towards getting their needs met!
Good Luck
