Originally Posted by
drainedwife 
... i need to keep badgering him to get help..
Perhaps you might consider getting out of the driver's seat (aka badgering) and let God take care of him?
The
only thing badgering did for me when I was out there using was make me angrier than I already was, and resentful as hell.
It was only after everyone walked away, and I was face down in the dirt (figuratively speaking) that I finally did something with my life.