I'm sure it's an eye opening book, and I think all education is good. I think we would all agree that it's worth trying hard to support an alcoholic loved one who is actively seeking help for themselves. And most of the people on this board have tried hard, very hard, before reaching the point where detachment is necessary if they're going to maintain their sanity. Nobody "lets go" on a whim. I know you didn't.
I'm guessing the book doesn't address that point very much --- what's best for the families of alcoholics. These are people who have worked hard to be supportive already, who often have lost savings, homes, security, have been verbally and physically abused, had their children exposed to horrible situations, and a host of other awfulness, and who now seek support for themselves to put their lives back together.
I'm here to support them.
And I will look forward to comments from our A forum members....I learn so much from them.