Originally Posted by
anvilhead 
...that's how we can tell when we are being manipulated.....that's the best TEST....say NO and watch how they react.
Great advice!
Silverberry big hugs to you
you have gotten some awsome advice above.
Keep positive, your day is what you make of it, take some tender loving care of you today and every other day - you are your own best friend!!
Love and Joy to you
Lily xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx