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Old 09-18-2008, 07:43 AM
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Reddmax
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Letting go-advice needed

All,

Since anyone that is here has had experience with living or being with an alcoholic, how do you deal (emotionally and mentally) with a situation like the following.

The AW gets drunk, and as she's falling asleep, starts talking about intimate stuff. It's disjointed, and doesn't make sense at all.

So, this morning, I asked her what she was talking about. She doesn't remember talking about it, and is angry that I thought it was worth thinking about or discussing. When we both left for work this morning, she was still aggravated.

My feelings, and the advice I need on dealing with them, are of fear and apprehension. I know I need to concentrate on myself, and making the best decisions for myself. It's just very hard to do, when you have a good idea that your significant other may try to do something spiteful to hurt you.

Any suggestions?

Redd
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