Never, I like the analogy of how detachment makes you see the drama as watching the same old show over and over again. I know it is sad and also frustrating, but I think it is huge that you can say that and aren't being sucked into it.
Gotta love those insurance companies...They are hell bent on releasing people right at the point where they are sooo filled with cravings and ready to go back out. I always have this "DUH what are you thinking" message going on in my head when I hear about them doing this and just wanna line 'em up and smack them upside the head, lol. I do know what they are thinking - Profits...It isn't about helping someone with a disease. It is so easy to throw people back out when physical withdrawal is done.Oh well, enough,I am powerless over insurance companies, lol
I hope depite everything Tim keeps doing the right thing and getting back into recovery. You are doing a great job with yours...Keeping an eye out for yourself and Jay. Hugs