SS,
That is great news about your son!
I want to share with you what my sponsor has had me do about resentments.
If I have a resentment for someone, she suggests that I pray for them every day. I have to say a nice long prayer for them, asking God for all the wonderful things for them that I want for myself. You know, peace, happiness, financial security, love, God, etc. How crazy is that you say! I said the same thing. But ya know what? After I did this for my ex (loser who stopped paying child support 8 months ago) for about 2 weeks, all of a sudden I found a certain peace and all of a sudden realized that I truly had let go of the resentment. Today, I truly do wish the best for him and hope that he finds what he is looking for in life. I am grateful that I am not dependent on him and that I found a real man.
I know, I know. You all think I am crazy. But I faked it until I found that eventually, I meant it. And I was the one that received the blessings :ghug3